Over the summer a fierce, nation-wide “conversation” (aka debate) took place over health-care reform. Almost immediately the opponents of the Presidents plan were labeled as racist regardless of why they disliked the plan or what logic they used to argue against it. This argument is called “playing the race card” which good ole Wikipedia defines as: an idiomatic phrase that refers to the act of bringing the issue of race or racism into a debate, perhaps to obfuscate the matter. It is a metaphorical reference to card games in which a trump card may be used to gain an advantage. This of course wasn’t the first time this ploy has been used and most likely won’t be the last. (Of course it’s never used when arguing against a conservative black man or woman but I digress) You come to expect such ad hominem tactics in the political arena but Christians have their own type of “race card” that they play when Biblical orthodoxy and even common sense doesn’t back up their arguments. It’s called the “hate card.” And I think that there is no other place that this tactic is more prominently displayed than in the Christian homosexual debate, and it goes something like this: If you believe that homosexual behavior is a sin then you’re a hateful, hypocritical bigot…therefore your arguments are worthless. A less-common but equally fallacious argument on the other side would be: You’re a homosexual therefore your arguments are worthless.
This “hate card” argument is an important argument to deal with, but must be dealt with carefully and above all lovingly and graciously. Just as the “race card” has a legitimate history of arguing against people actually making arguments and spewing forth hate based on the color of a persons skin, so the “hate card”, especially in the homosexual argument, has a history of defending against people actually physically persecuting and spewing forth hateful, vitriolic filth against a person based on a person’s private sexual choices and/or tendencies. Such racism and hate is to be condemned!
However….just because one person acted in a vile and hateful fashion does not mean that everyone who believes homosexual behavior is a sin is hateful and desires to persecute the glbt community. Just like a person who disagrees with a black president isn’t necessarily a racist.
Unfortunately though any debate I have witnessed involving Christians advocating and/or defending homosexual behavior ends up with the “hate card” being played…and usually very quickly.
Here are some examples from a recent post over at Tony Jones blog, that interestingly enough was not originally about the homosexual behavior debate:
A homosexual advocate writes:
“Love the sinner hate the sin” is a euphemism for: I hate you and I hope God sends you straight to hell. “No, I don’t hate gays. I love you” is a euphemism for: If I could, I would torture you to death and I hope God sends you to hell.
“Evangelical or fundamentalist or literalistic or conservative Christian’ is a euphemism for: hate-filled person who wishes the Nazis had succeeded, but since they didn’t are giving it their best Bob Jones try.
This is just a partial sampling but extremely illustrative of the “hate card.” The statements are not meant to be arguments, but meant to destroy the character of the opponent. A way of twisting anything the opponent might say into hate speech to be disregarded.
So how does one argue against such, ironically hateful, tactics? The same way genuine believers have been dealing with them for centuries – live genuine, gracious, loving lives. The problem for those that demonize their opponents is that when other people discover that the person they are demonizing isn’t like they’ve been told he is, they lose their credibility.
As I wrap this up, there are two important points that must be made. The first actually comes from the above commenter at Tony Jones blog. Here is the end of the same comment that included the above statements:
I can’t think of any other minority groups in the 21st century America which are treated as sub-humans as are gays and the transgender.
I believe that there is much truth in that statement. For while the “love the sinner, hate the sin” argument may be valid there have been those who have used it…and then proceeded to hate the sinner as well.
Secondly, when involved in the “homosexual behavior isn’t necessarily sin” debate I ask this question to the advocates of homosexual behavior (which to my knowledge has still gone unanswered): “Can you love a God who hates (as sin) all homosexual behavior?”
But another question should be asked to those on the other side of the debate: Can you love a God who forgives the sin of homosexual behavior and grants new, completely satisfying life in Him to all who repent and believe? And perhaps a follow up question: Do you recognize that your sins are just as reprehensible to a Holy and Righteous God?
Over the summer a fierce, nation-wide “conversation” (aka debate) took place over health-care reform. Almost immediately the opponents of the Presidents plan were labeled as racist regardless of why they disliked the plan or what logic they used to argue against it. This argument is called “playing the race card” which good ole Wikipedia defines as: an idiomatic phrase that refers to the act of bringing the issue of race or racism into a debate, perhaps to obfuscate the matter. It is a metaphorical reference to card games in which a trump card may be used to gain an advantage. This of course wasn’t the first time this ploy has been used and most likely won’t be the last. (Of course it’s never used when arguing against a conservative black man or woman but I digress) You come to expect such ad hominem tactics in the political arena but Christians have their own type of “race card” that they play when Biblical orthodoxy and even common sense doesn’t back up their arguments. It’s called the “hate card.” And I think that there is no other place that this tactic is more prominently displayed than in the Christian homosexual debate, and it goes something like this: If you believe that homosexual behavior is a sin then you’re a hateful, hypocritical bigot…therefore your arguments are worthless. A less-common but equally fallacious argument on the other side would be: You’re a homosexual therefore your arguments are worthless.
This “hate card” argument is an important argument to deal with, but must be dealt with carefully and above all lovingly and graciously. Just as the “race card” has a legitimate history of arguing against people actually making arguments and spewing forth hate based on the color of a persons skin, so the “hate card”, especially in the homosexual argument, has a history of defending against people actually physically persecuting and spewing forth hateful, vitriolic filth against a person based on a person’s private sexual choices and/or tendencies. Such racism and hate is to be condemned!
However….just because one person acted in a vile and hateful fashion does not mean that everyone who believes homosexual behavior is a sin is hateful and desires to persecute the glbt community. Just like a person who disagrees with a black president isn’t necessarily a racist.
Unfortunately though any debate I have witnessed involving Christians advocating and/or defending homosexual behavior ends up with the “hate card” being played…and usually very quickly.
Here are some examples from a recent post over at Tony Jones blog, that interestingly enough was not originally about the homosexual behavior debate:
A homosexual advocate writes:
“Love the sinner hate the sin” is a euphemism for: I hate you and I hope God sends you straight to hell.
“No, I don’t hate gays. I love you” is a euphemism for: If I could, I would torture you to death and I hope God sends you to hell.
“Evangelical or fundamentalist or literalistic or conservative Christian’ is a euphemism for: hate-filled person who wishes the Nazis had succeeded, but since they didn’t are giving it their best Bob Jones try.
This is just a partial sampling but extremely illustrative of the “hate card.” The statements are not meant to be arguments, but meant to destroy the character of the opponent. A way of twisting anything the opponent might say into hate speech to be disregarded.
So how does one argue against such, ironically hateful, tactics? The same way genuine believers have been dealing with them for centuries – live genuine, gracious, loving lives. The problem for those that demonize their opponents is that when other people discover that the person they are demonizing isn’t like they’ve been told he is, they lose their credibility.
As I wrap this up, there are two important points that must be made. The first actually comes from the above commenter at Tony Jones blog. Here is the end of the same comment that included the above statements:
I can’t think of any other minority groups in the 21st century America which are treated as sub-humans as are gays and the transgender.
There is much truth in that statement. For while the “love the sinner, hate the sin” argument may be valid there have been those who have used it…and then proceeded to hate the sinner as well.
Secondly, when involved in the “homosexual behavior isn’t necessarily sin” debate I ask this question to the advocates of homosexual behavior (which to my knowledge has still gone unanswered): “Can you love a God who hates (as sin) all homosexual behavior?”
But another question should be asked to those on the other side of the debate: Can you love a God who forgives the sin of homosexual behavior and grants new, completely satisfying life in Him to all who repent and believe? And perhaps a follow up question: Do you recognize that your sins are just as reprehensible to a Holy and Righteous God?